Nowadays, the issue of education and recognition of the damages caused by wrong education is one of the main concerns of committed parents. Proper education of children is very important due to their mental and physical sensitivities. Parents of children, as the most influential people in the child's life, need to be fully aware of the basic needs of the child and try to meet those needs. One of the most important needs of a child is emotional need, one of its examples is the need for affection, peace, security. Parental disregard for emotional needs will have undesirable effects on the child's personality during childhood and adulthood, such as fear, mistrust, rotation, lack of confidence and negligence are some of these undesirable effects that affect a person's childhood and adulthood. Parents who live in their educational methods of extremes, violence, discrimination and comparison, impatience and time to talk and play children with this kind of behavior that show themselves to be an effective factor in causing these problems. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to learn and use principles in their educational style. Principles such as teaching and strengthening religious beliefs, observing justice, positive thinking, understanding parents' behavior, patience and tolerance, by applying these codes of behavior, meet their emotional needs and provide them with a life full of peace and security.